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Where are you giving your life away?
Six honest questions. Five patterns. One clear place to start. Your result is not a verdict on who you are. It is a clue about where your power keeps leaving the room before you do, and exactly what to try before Tuesday.
The five patterns
Most of us have a favourite. Some of us collect them.
Approval
Approval is making too many of your decisions
You check other people's comfort before you check your own truth. Kind, responsible, grown up, and quietly exhausting.
Waiting
Your life is stuck in the waiting room
Waiting for certainty, confidence or the perfect plan. Getting ready forever is still a choice.
Evidence
Potential is outvoting the evidence
You see what could be so clearly that what actually keeps happening keeps getting an extension.
Overload
You are carrying what is not yours
Solving, rescuing and remembering everything before anyone else has to join in. Helpful became responsible for everybody.
Old rules
An old rule is running your life today
A should, a must or a cannot, still deciding for you long after the situation that created it ended.
Whatever your result
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